September 2008 Archives

In Relationships: Men and Doing

The majority of men are wired to do, fix, conquer, accomplish. The fastest way to frustrate a man is to tell him about something that is wrong that he has no ability to do anything about. Most certainly this includes things he has done in the past but can't undo. Frustration comes out in a vast variety of emotions including anger, moodiness, and depression. Continue Reading…

Posted by Paul Gernhardt on Sep 27, 2008

In Life: Difficult Decisions

It seems that the decisions we consider the most difficult are those that pit our principles against our desires. They seem hard because you are going to loose either way. It seems to me, however, that one is a short-term loss while the other endures for eternity. Continue Reading…

Posted by Paul Gernhardt on Sep 24, 2008

In God: My Responsibility to the Non-Believer

As a Christian I have to ask myself what is my responsibility to the non-believer.

Empirical Christian studies would suggest the process is to inform the non-believer of all the ways they are sinning. The goal appears to be to tell them to stop being sinners and, through this helpful corrective education about their actions, for them to turn to God. I should be concerned, and probably offended by their sinful ways. Empirical Christian studies suggest that this hasn't been a particularly successful strategy.

In my biblical Christian studies I find the process suggested by Jesus is to meet individuals, accept them without reservation, identify a need, provide for that needs, and move on. The goal is introduce them to a loving god by being an example of that love. I should be concerned about loving them and having an opportunity to help them move closer to a spiritual birth. Biblical Christian studies suggests that this was a wildly successful strategy.

It seems to me that if I was able to get a non-believer to stop sinning they would still remain spiritually dead. If I introduce them to God they may have opportunity to be spiritually alive -- which is the only way to open the door for the Holly Spirit to begin transforming them.

As a Christian I have to ask myself what is my responsibility to the non-believer. I have come to the conclusion that I should measure every encounter by how much love and support I show and whether I have moved the person's heart close or farther from God.


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Posted by Paul Gernhardt on Sep 21, 2008

In God: An Exercise in Sin

Here is an exercise to try: For one month replace the word “sin” in your vocabulary with the words “bad choice”. If you constantly think about you own sins make this a week. If you constantly think about the sins of others make it three months. Continue Reading…

Posted by Paul Gernhardt on Sep 21, 2008

In God: Why Do Bad Things Happen

One of the most asked questions people seem to have about God is why he would allow bad things to happen. Given the shear amount of human suffering in this world, it is a wholly reasonable question. Unfortunately the answers given by most Christians simply don't provide a viewpoint which inspire people to move towards God. In fact, as I watch some Christians weather difficult times, it would appear that the answers usually are not sustaining to them either. Both of these results are exceedingly sad. Allow me to suggest that the true answer to the question is far more simple (and perhaps a bit more complex) than the typical answers:

The things that happen, good or bad, are the result of the decisions that have been made by ourselves and others as they impact the world we live in.

A secular view virtually requires this position – albeit with a bit of random chance thrown in. Some may see this view as a prison, others an expression of personal responsibility, and some as the ultimate empowerment of the individual. Highly effective individuals understand this relationship innately. This expression is an article in itself, but for now I'll focus on the original question.

How does this seemingly human-oriented, human-powered statement mesh with biblical theology? In my mind it is a foundational element of Christianity; God gave us free will. He not only gave us free will but He considered it a critical requirement for our creation. How can I possibly make such a strong statement? Consider that before God gave us free will he knew that it would not only determine the path of all mankind, but that the result of our free will would would ultimately require the death of His son to heal our relationship with Him. Knowing this, God still chose to gave us free will. It must have been incredibly important to him.

Decisions are an simply an expression of free will, but we often fail to see the consider the what follows. For us to truly have free will those decisions must have an affect on the world around us. If our decisions fail to have an impact on our world then we have only the allusion of free will. For example; if a parent says we have a choice (free will) to stay home with the family or go out with our friends, we would expect that a decision to go out would result in spending time with our friends (the affect). If, after we make the decision, we are told we must stay home with the family then it is fair to ask if we have we experienced true free will or only the allusion of free will. Decisions must have an impact on the world around us if we have true free will. The cumulative decisions of humankind has result in the world we experience today.


Wait! What about God's will? Where does He come into the process if it is we who have decided the nature of the world we live in? As an omnipotent and omnipresent being, God must certainly have the power to determine the nature of this world? Well, yes He does... but perhaps doing so comes at a great cost to Him. Every time God intervenes in the affairs of this world he must, by the vary nature of doing so, negate the affects of the decisions made by one or more people – and most likely the cumulative affects of the decisions made by many people. God can intervene, but at the cost of suspending free will for some or all. Considering the cost that God paid to give us free will, His contravention of that free will may not come so easily to Him.

However, we know that God DOES intervene. Given the argument above how is it reasonable at all that He can intervene? Perhaps it comes when the choices of many people allows Him to balance the equation. We express our free will, our desires, through action and through prayer. Perhaps this provides the critical counter-pose for the choices of others. Through our action, prayer, efforts, and beliefs we can move the equation and provide the ability for action and impact. This is completely in keeping with free will and God's promise. It is clearly the path to action called for in the bible.

In a nutshell, I believe the following is a biblically consistent answer to the question of why God allows bad things to happen:

It is certainly not the will of God for us to experience the turmoil, trouble, and pain of this world. Originally he had a perfect world created for us to live in – the Garden of Eden. There was no death, no disease, no pain, no turmoil. However, through their free will Adam and Eve made a decision that caused them, and us, to loose that perfect living place. Every decision of every person who followed has helped shape the world we live in today. Be very clear as well that every decision we make works to shapes the world for for us... and everyone else.

One might view the bible as God's instructions on how to make good decisions, loving decisions, that result in good and Godly affects on ourselves, those around us, and the world itself.

On a final note allow me touch on another of the most asked questions people seem to have about God: Why would God send some people to to hell? Oddly enough the above discussion answers that question as well: free will. According to the bible we are given the choice of living with or without God. We have an entire life on earth to make that decision. As painful as it may be for Him, God will honor whatever our decision is --- for all eternity. He's pretty consistent isn't he.

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Posted by Paul Gernhardt on Sep 19, 2008